Moderator: Listen to Brother Tao, "The Story of Being Born in America".Hi everyone, my name is Brother Tao, and I haven't recorded audio for a few days.The main reason is that I have been receiving a few clients who came to the surrogacy recently, which is quite busy.Generally, I personally receive surrogacy clients, and I don’t like to let others handle it, because this matter is relatively private and personal.

    Today I want to talk with you, as a topic, the issue of surrogacy for older guests in the United States.I recently received several older guests and came to the United States to do IVF. Today, a bad news came, saying that a woman of my client in 1974 came to do IVF and wanted surrogacy. I suggested to her to get eggs first, because Your situation is relatively risky.Prepare the embryo first, and be psychologically prepared, it may be a preparation for failure.They are not reconciled, saying that I must try to be reconciled.

    As a result, the injection was promoted for four days.Five follicles grew up, and I told me at the time that I thought it was pretty good.The doctor kept saying that it would take another two days, but he went again today and found that only one follicle was growing, and the other four were not long.According to the doctor’s advice, if you continue to take the injection, take the last follicle, even if it is taken out, it may still be an empty sac, not necessarily a usable follicle.And even if it can be used, it may not be fertilized.The risk is great, let the guests decide for themselves.Dr. Nelson is still very good and very medically ethical.Unlike some doctors, you don’t need to worry about the effect of taking it out.Because the rule is that after the injection is finished, the whole package will be spent, no matter whether the egg is taken out or not, or the result of the egg retrieval.Nelson is still more humane. If you stop now, you can refund the money back to the customer.I guess that Dr. Nielsen can do this in the United States. No other doctor I know can do this.

    At that time, I suggested to the client that the client could not make up his mind to call me.I'll tell her, stop, settle the money, don't rush to take it back, try it again next month, the second cycle may be better than the first.If you feel that you really don't want to take risks, or don't want to toss, just donate eggs, but you have to pass the threshold in your heart.Because we Chinese are still relatively traditional and we hope to have our own blood.If you pass this hurdle, egg donation is very worry-free, and the success rate is very high.If you are not reconciled, you have only one way to go to the end, that is, next time you come to get the eggs, you may have to come at least two or three times, and there may not be a good result.So go forward one step at a time, and pass one level by one.No one can assure you now. The guests will tell me that it is difficult to see this road. At first, we were too optimistic when we came. We thought that the technology in the United States was very high. Money can do it.Unexpectedly, this road is still very difficult now, and I may have spent money, but in the end there is nothing.So after hesitating, I asked me what to do with egg donation, and learn more about egg donation.

    I told her that the egg donation does not include your results. Maybe you paid the money, but you may not have a good result after the egg donation. In fact, the results of the egg donation are not guaranteed.Customers are even more worried. I am not spending money and nothing is going to happen.This is the United States, and this is how it operates.Because you donate eggs alone, her response is different every month.There is no way to guarantee a result. Of course, doctors will have a physical examination, at least to ensure that the hard index items, these physical examination indicators, the egg donor meets the requirements.I don’t know how effective the specific injections and ovulation and egg retrieval are. I don’t know if there is no guarantee. This is a problem.This is a common problem encountered by our older guests.

    I also received a guest last week, in 1968, almost 49 years old.Come and ask me, I want to do test tube, do surrogacy.She came up and said that I wanted to do surrogacy, and I knew she had some misunderstandings, thinking that surrogacy could solve all problems.I talked to her in detail, saying that surrogacy requires embryos first, which means that you must have a good seed before it will germinate on a fertile ground.Otherwise, the seeds will not germinate if the soil is fertile, because the seeds themselves are not good, so there must be seeds first and embryos first.Basically, hopes like this in 1968 are quite slim. If success is definitely a sensational news, absolute doctors can brag about it, absolutely awesome.There are some special doctors on the Internet, and they may be able to get one at a time. Older or more difficult doctors, and after publicizing them, they will become special doctors.Even if he succeeds in one, and you ask him to come again, he has no hope at all, no confidence at all, and no confidence. They are all touching and trying again and again.

    We cooperated with Dr. Nielsen. He did a great job as an older man, and he did a lot of age.But most of them are 47 and 48 years old, using their own eggs and their own sperm to conceive successfully.I asked him about this question, and I said that the patient had done 4 times with other doctors and all failed.Once you succeed in your side, where are you so special?He told the truth, it wasn't me who was the cow, maybe it was the guest. My luck was better. I got her best egg.Because the ovulation situation is different every month, the egg quality is also different, and the embryo is different.When she came to me for the fifth time, we worked together to get her best egg and make the best embryo.The transplant was successful. The time, the location, and the harmony of people do not mean how good a doctor is, so this is a very honest statement, a very simple statement of a doctor.

    Perhaps in terms of publicity, when other doctors advertised, they became genius doctors, and everyone rushed to him. I'm looking for doctors who specialize in old age.In fact, there are several doctors propagating that he specializes in seniors.In fact, let me tell you that there is no doctor who specializes in seniors, specializes in young people, or specializes in various situations.In the 30-year history of IVF, its principle has not changed much, that is, when you take the eggs, you still have to use the injection to promote the discharge. After the injection, the embryos are taken out and transplanted into the uterus. It's that simple.There is not much breakthrough. The so-called breakthrough is the change of drugs in the laboratory, the breakthrough in the laboratory, the improvement of equipment, the technology of embryo breeding sacs, and the use of drugs.These principles have not changed. If you are older and younger, you can do it. Doctors follow the same line of thinking, which is to promote ovulation, the follicles need to be long, and the key follicles are long.No matter how old or young it is, it’s useless to change the genius if you don’t have follicles.It is to promote the injection, the purpose is to make your follicles grow heavy.So you don’t have an older age. Does the doctor specifically target older age? He has special prescriptions. I tell you, no. Don’t be fooled by this concept.We Chinese people especially like to believe in this concept, don't be fooled by him.Say that we design a special plan specifically for older people, but in fact they are all the same, and the principles are the same.

    So when the doctor treated it, he thought it was a kind of treatment, it was a method, and IVF was a treatment method.Including local patients in the United States, the same is true for this. He is a method of treatment, not that it can guarantee your success.They will accept it, so if they fail, they will do it again.Our Chinese guests are different, because the expectations of the United States are too high, and it is hard to come here and spend so much money. I hope you will succeed in one go. If you fail, I suspect that there is something wrong with your level. I will look for problems in the east and problems in the west. , After all looking for an exit.For the older age, I hope that everyone must realize this situation. It is not because of surrogacy that comes to the United States. The older age problem can be solved.Maybe I have seen a lot of news, some older people are pregnant here.Seeing a lot of celebrities, what 46, 47, 48 are pregnant with.Did she tell you the truth? You don't know.Especially as a friend, there are many examples of this. My friend ran the US surrogacy successfully when he was 50 years old and went back with the baby.But did she tell you the truth, whether she used her own eggs or borrowed them.I think people who generally borrow eggs will not tell you the truth.Basically, you don't know. Your concept is that my friend went to the United States for surrogacy at the age of 50, and the child was brought back and it succeeded.You will think if I can do it too.

    The key to this is the egg. Many people use egg borrowing, but she won't tell you.Therefore, if the older person is more realistic, it is better to borrow eggs, after all, half of the blood is from the husband.But the hurdles in Chinese people's hearts are sad, and it is easy to pass this hurdle.If you are not reconciled and don't give up, borrowing eggs is the easiest.If you must use your own, then you must be prepared to do it twice, three times, four times...you have to have the time and energy to do it.Because the doctor can only say to help you accumulate embryos every time, accumulate, take two this time, and three next time.He may use this method, so you have to be prepared.

    Today, I will talk to you about this issue, especially the older ones, because I have encountered too many customers and have a misunderstanding about this. Just because I find a surrogate mother to help me, I can solve any problems.This is just to find a womb that we borrowed from her. The key is whether you have a good embryo or not, it is your own control.Age is irreversible, and doctors shouldn’t expect any genius doctors. There is a doctor who is particularly magical, specifically for how old we are doing.As my profession, I have come into contact with so many cases. My feeling is that for older guests coming to the United States, you have to choose a doctor. The key is to choose a responsible doctor. Does he follow you throughout the process, monitor in time, and make timely changes? Medication, dosage, or how.The timing of egg retrieval is very important. The doctor must follow you wholeheartedly and serve you alone. From beginning to end, the details determine success or failure.He will help you from the details and check it well, and your chances will be higher.Rather than just rush to a doctor who is famous, many famous doctors go, and nurses will receive you.You said that you spend money to let a nurse help you decide your success or failure, how could it be better?So we must have a clearer understanding. Today I will talk to you all here.Thank you.

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