When you come to the United States for surrogacy, you are most concerned about the choice of surrogate mother. The US surrogate intermediary company will recommend candidates based on the specific requirements of the client. If there are more hard target conditions proposed by the guest and cannot be compromised, they must be accurate to their own selection conditions to match the success. It may take a little longer.

For the matching conditions of surrogate mothers, general customers will list the following conditions:

1) Ethnic issues

Many guests say they cannot cooperate with black people, even if their husbands are black. In fact, racial problems are not directly linked to the health problems of children born in the future, and children born in the future will not have black skin after birth because the surrogate mother is black. The characteristics of the child are related to your own DNA. It only provides the uterus, and the blood and blood supply make the child grow up. But after all, some black people in some films have left people with an incredible impression, which ultimately caused a general misunderstanding of the black race, which is understandable. If you particularly mind, you can choose white surrogate mothers or Hispanics, (immigrants from South America) or Mexicans.

2) Marital status

Generally, everyone hopes to cooperate with married families, but everyone also knows that the divorce rate in the United States is very high. After divorce, many women are not eager to remarry. They are either single or choose to live with their boyfriends in a trial relationship for many years. This kind of thing is indeed accepted in the Greater China region as the divorce rate soars rapidly. In our opinion, marital status should not be an important indicator of surrogate mother choice. As long as there are relatives and friends to take care of and help with the surrogate mother, whether or not there is a husband is not the key issue. It is even worse if the relationship with the husband is not harmonious. Surrogate pregnancy, especially in the United States, which is far away from thousands of miles, the mentality of the surrogacy claimant itself is to "do not doubt people, do not doubt people." Although that said, it does not mean that you can not care about her after the surrogate is pregnant, let her go, from time to time through email, MSN/Skype/WeChat and other communication means, of course, it is still necessary to care about the surrogate. After all, his own child is still in the stomach of others.

3) Educational background

Some clients said that the compensation for the surrogate mother is the same anyway. Of course, it is best to find a surrogate who graduated from college. The education industry in the United States is developed, and many people can continue to study after they work, and they can get a recognized higher-level degree. We also have a surrogate for a master's degree. But most applicants do not have a 4-year college degree, and many are military sisters-in-law. After falling in high school, they got married and gave birth in their early 20s. For us, the problem of academic qualifications is still a condition that can be encountered but not sought after. After all, it is the health of others, not the smart mind. In recent years, the only candidate who was excluded from psychological tests and interviews was a candidate with a college degree, excellent writing skills, and high IQ. She was measured to have mild depression and a little perfectionism. Such a surrogate mother is very good. It is difficult to flexibly adapt to the demands of surrogacy appealers. In other words, a little dissatisfied with her heart, she may be very mindful, and go to her heart, so in order to save the trouble of cooperation in the next year, she certainly can not be assessed as a surrogate.

4) Working conditions and medical insurance

Many surrogates themselves have full-time or part-time jobs of 20 hours a week. Such surrogate mothers often have their own medical insurance, but such employer-purchased insurance often requires the surrogate mother to file a surrogacy contract after the pregnancy, and then reserves the right to recover the surrogate mother’s salary based on the medical cost of the final birth. In addition, it should be emphasized that the surrogate who has a job has to take 4 weeks of maternity leave 6 weeks before the birth and 10 weeks after the birth. The 10 weeks of wage losses caused by this need to be borne by the prospective parents. If you encounter a surrogate who is a housewife, such as a military sister-in-law, and my surrogate mother, and a wife of a police officer, they often have good family health insurance purchased by government agencies. Use, in addition, because they do not have jobs, so there is no problem of wage compensation. Such surrogate mothers are generally more sought-after, but for example, if there are restrictions on the surrogacy requirements, often such surrogate mothers have to be removed, because most of them have not attended university.

5) Geographical location of the surrogate mother

Most customers are asking for California candidates. Because the hospital is located in the center of Los Angeles, lawyer fees and future travel expenses will be saved. California has a pleasant climate throughout the year and there are many Chinese people. Chinese services for Chinese people are also better. There are many direct flights from major cities in the Greater China region to San Francisco or Los Angeles every day. The transportation is very convenient. But if you have relatives and friends in the United States and they do not live in California, then you should consider whether it is more convenient to live near the family and friends before bringing the child back to the country. She is born in a local hospital, picks up the child after delivery, and then lives near your friends and family. In addition, please note that newborns can fly, as long as the pediatrician provides a certificate. But this is also different from person to person. The client decided to choose a surrogate far away in the eastern United States. The reason is also very simple, that is, it looks pleasing to the eye, is tall, and gives people good. In addition, she has 3 consecutive successful surrogacy. Experience, 2 twins, and just shortly this summer, I want to get auspicious, and let her work harder, and it can be operated immediately, there is no anxious waiting process, and it should feel smoother. As for the future issue of going to pick up children in the eastern cities of the United States, when they have children, they feel that in fact everything else can be overcome, the most important thing is that cooperation feels better, and everything follows the feeling. We think this kind of thinking is also very good, and it is hearty to follow the feeling. I believe the feeling at first glance is very important. If you don’t have confidence in your surrogate from the beginning, then the cooperation in the next year will not feel smooth. . But then again, these practices really only target ethnic groups that have no total cost pressure and no time and regional distress to pick up the children.

6) Body shape (weight)

The American definition of fatness is vastly different from that of our Asians. So, if a 1-meter lady weighs about as much as an Asian adult man, for example around 1.6 kg, it is definitely not considered obese in the United States. Belong to the ideal weight of expectant mother. Regarding height, some surrogate mothers are 72 meters tall and have no experience of surrogate twins, and some are only 1.75m but still have multiple surrogate twins production experience, so we can't actually judge a person's fertility from his body shape.

7) Age

American surrogate mothers must be between 22 and 40 years old, have been born before and have been born at full term (single babies over 36 weeks), and cannot have a history of complications. As a surrogate mother is actually over 35 years old, her egg quality may be reduced, but this does not mean that her own uterus' gestation ability is greatly reduced. Going to the United States for surrogacy is mainly to use the uterus of the surrogate mother to give birth to children, so we can’t take The traditional definition of advanced maternal age is to measure surrogacy in the United States. On the contrary, the older surrogate mothers are generally more mature, and people with a certain social experience will be more peaceful. We found that the individual surrogate mothers 22 and 23 are indeed slightly naive in all aspects of their ideas and outlook on life. Some, this may form a certain "generation gap" in communication with surrogacy claimants whose average age is over 35 years old.

8) Pregnancy history

The concept of sex in American society is more open than in Asia. Many surrogate mothers have sexual experiences in their teenage years. If we discover that the surrogate mother has a history of miscarriage or induction of labor at a young age, we don’t have to make a fuss because the production capacity of the last surrogate mother is caused by The doctor of the reproductive specialty makes a judgment after careful examination. If there is a problem with fertility, it will be deleted in the initial medical record test or require further testing, and finally the key uterine function evaluation will be It is the standard that really sets.

9) The purpose of surrogacy

Many surrogate mothers say that they have great surrogacy ideals since they were young. They want to help others experience the happiness of being a parent. Some people have been influenced by relatives or friends before they thought of being a surrogate mother. In fact, no one is truly pure. To do this to enjoy the pleasure of pregnancy, but no one will do it just for money. Because if life is tight, people who need the government's comprehensive insurance relief are not eligible to be surrogates. In terms of finances, life is unhurried, and those who do not need surrogacy to solve the urgent needs of life are eligible to be surrogate mothers. Therefore, we often see that the surrogate mother said that the surrogacy salary is to prepare for the future education of his children, and to save money for buying a big house in the future.

10) Whether to cooperate with an experienced surrogate mother

After all, experienced surrogacy is still a minority, and the salary for another year will be more expensive than 5000 dollars without experience. Because of previous experience, experienced surrogates tend to rely less on surrogacy claimants. Even if you don’t care about her often, she should know how to take care of herself, especially for overseas surrogacy claimants. Customers will not have too many unrealistic expectations, such as often attending routine obstetric inspections together. Some experienced surrogate mothers have experience with twins several times, which is often more attractive. But calm down and discuss with the doctor. The doctor's point of view is that if the gestational ability passes the evaluation before the first surrogacy, then all surrogate candidates should be on the same starting line. The quality of the embryo provided by the claimant is related. If the quality of the embryo is good, of course, it is easy to have multiple births. For example, if the surrogacy applicant uses the method of donating eggs by young women to obtain high-quality eggs, the chance of obtaining high-quality embryos will be greatly improved, plus Using the excellent uterine environment of the surrogate mother, then the chance of natural pregnancy and birth will be a lot higher than others. From a statistical point of view, how can we judge the pros and cons of the ability to conceive in 2 or 3 successful births?

In short, there can be many criteria for selection and evaluation. If each one has to find the perfect surrogate in mind according to its own ideas, it may be possible to filter out a few criteria, and the remaining surrogate candidates will be few. In fact, the most important thing is that I still think about the candidates, other physical qualities, surrogate background and other issues based on the time I can wait and the budget. As long as they are selected through tests and surveys, then I don’t need to worry too much. problem.

Matters needing attention in the process of surrogacy in the United States